This Question, Asked at the Right Time, Could Save a Life
Asking someone if they’re thinking of harming themselves won’t make things worse—it could save their life. In this emotional piece for Suicide Prevention Month, the founder of MentorWell shares the story of losing her daughter to suicide and offers guidance on how to ask the hardest question with compassion, courage, and care.
What I Learned from Losing Maddie: 6 Ways Grief Changes Your Brain Forever
Grief isn’t something you “get over.” It rewires the brain—memory fog, sleep disruption, survival mode, emotional flooding, and lasting change. After losing my daughter Maddie, I learned firsthand the lifelong impact of traumatic loss. This is why The MentorWell exists: to give kids trusted mentors before silence and struggle become crisis.
Maddie Didn’t Need More Advice. She Needed Someone.
Maddie’s story reminds us that teens don’t always need advice — they need someone in their corner. A mentor offers a safe space to be heard, understood, and supported. At The MentorWell, we believe mentorship can ease the weight teens carry and give them hope. Learn why having someone who truly listens matters more than advice.
How I Learned to Talk to My Teen (and Sometimes Just Keep My Mouth Shut)
Connecting with teens isn’t about always having the answers—it’s about listening, asking if they want to “feel it or fix it,” and knowing when to bring in mentorship. This post shares my real-life struggles and lessons in communicating with teenagers, and how a mentor can help when words run out or conflicts feel impossible. Advice for parents, mentors, and anyone raising teens.
Your Teen Is Not a Project to Fix, They’re a Person to See
Most teens aren’t lazy—they’re exhausted by the pressure to prove their worth through grades, awards, and perfection. This post explores how mentorship offers teens a new narrative: one rooted in self-worth, emotional resilience, and identity beyond performance. Parents, too, are invited to embrace a gentler, more affirming way forward.
Are We Teaching Teens That Bullies Win and Truth Doesn’t Matter?
Are we unintentionally teaching kids to suppress their emotions and avoid honesty to stay safe? This post challenges adults to model emotional maturity by respecting disagreement without shame. Because beliefs matter—and the way we handle them teaches kids everything. If you're out of alignment with that, we're likely not meant to work together.
When Does Grief Start to Get Easier? A Grieving Parent’s Honest Answer
11 years after losing his daughter Maddie, a grieving father reflects on how grief reshapes identity—not just in moments of pain, but in who we become. This raw, honest piece explores the quiet evolution of healing, and why MentorWell exists to hold space for teens navigating emotions too big to name.
You’re Not Their Therapist, And That’s a Good Thing
Maddie was a high-performing teen athlete silently struggling with life changes. This post explores how a mentor—not a therapist—might have helped her stay connected, feel supported, and know she wasn’t alone. Learn how MentorWell empowers real people to guide teens through overwhelm, burnout, and emotional shifts with presence and care.