She Checked If Her Daughter was Breathing. Then She Went to Work
1 in 4 working parents is dealing with an emotionally struggling child right now. In a 200-person company that’s roughly 30 employees carrying something heavy in silence. This post breaks down what parenting stress is actually costing your organization, why EAP isn’t enough, and what companies can do to support the working parents who show up every day pretending everything is fine. Includes the free Workplace Signal Check.
The Inbox Diaries: Episode 3, "My Teen Won't Talk to Me. So I Stopped Talking Too."
When a teen withdraws, parents often try harder to reach them—only to create more distance. In this episode of The Inbox Diaries, a father asks whether giving his son space means giving up. Through a personal story about Maddie, this post explores the powerful shift that happens when parents stop pushing and simply stay present. Sometimes the quietest moments reopen the door to connection.
It's Not Too Early. It Might Already Be Late.
Parents assume mental health concerns start in high school. They don't. Parents of children as young as 8 are reporting warning signs including suicidal language, online bullying carrying into school, and emotional shutdown. Therapy waitlists are months long. This post covers what parents can do now to build emotional foundation, set boundaries, and create connection before the teen years hit. Free guide and parent community included.
What Qualifies You to Give Parenting Advice When You Lost a Child to Suicide?
A stranger sent Chris Coulter a message on LinkedIn: “What qualifies you to give parenting advice when you lost a child to suicide?” The question stung. But it deserved an answer. This article is that answer — told through the loss of his daughter Maddie, and two messages from parents whose lives were changed by what he writes. The stories are the credentials.
I Thought Loving Her Harder Would Save Her. I Was Wrong
When his daughter was hospitalized for the second time, Chris Coulter realised that loving her harder was not going to close the gap. This post explores why teens in crisis need more than one person, why mentorship fills the space between therapy and parenting, and how parents can take a first step before things escalate. Includes the free Teen Signal Check tool.
The Inbox Diaries — Edition 1. "I Check If She's Breathing Before I Go to Work"
A weekly series drawing from real messages sent to Chris Coulter of The MentorWell. Episode 1 explores the silent epidemic of parents navigating teen mental health crises while performing fine at work. For parents carrying this alone and employers who don't know what's happening in their building.
We Don’t Wait to Talk About Cancer, Why Wait for Mental Health?
When a teenager is diagnosed with cancer, the support is immediate. When a teenager is admitted to a psychiatric ward, there's silence. Chris Coulter's daughter Maddie spent two months in a youth psychiatric ward. Her friends were told it was stomach issues. Only family visited. This article explores why we treat physical and mental illness differently, the cost of silence, and why it's time to stop whispering about youth mental health. Includes practical resources for parents and employers.
How to Listen to Your Teen Without Pushing Them Away
Many parents unintentionally shut down teen communication by jumping into problem-solving mode. This article explains why “fixing” backfires, what teens actually need when they open up, and simple conversation scripts that build emotional safety. Includes warning signs your teen may be struggling and a 2-minute tool to help you assess what’s normal and what needs attention.
The 7 Questions Parents Ask Me in Private
Parents of struggling teens ask me the same 7 questions in private about exhaustion, isolation, "I'm fine," when to act, and fear of overreacting. These aren't signs of bad parenting. They're signs you're paying attention. If you're noticing changes in your teen and wondering if you should be worried, this is for you. Trust your instincts.
Your Competitor Just Became the Company Parents Choose Over You
Two types of companies compete for the same talent. Type A says "leave personal life at the door." Type B supports the whole human. When 1 in 4 working parents has a teen in crisis, parents are screening for which type you are in interviews. They're asking: "What happens if my kid has a crisis?" One answer loses talent. One builds loyalty. The companies choosing Type B aren't being nice—they're being strategic.
10 Things Your Teen Won't Say Out Loud (But Desperately Needs You to Know)
Teens are sending signals, but most parents miss them or dismiss them as "just teenage behaviour." This guide reveals the 10 things struggling teens desperately wish their parents understood, from what "I'm fine" really means to why they shut you out. Written by Chris Coulter, founder of MentorWell, based on hundreds of conversations with teens. Includes actionable steps for each insight and a free guide to help you start conversations that actually work.
3 Warning Signs Your Teen Is Pulling Away (And What to Do)
Teens don’t always pull away loudly. Often, the warning signs are subtle, small shifts in behaviour, tone, and connection. Drawing from lived experience, this piece shares three early signs a teen may be disconnecting, along with gentle ways parents can respond before things escalate. It’s about noticing sooner, staying present, and trusting what you see.
The Darkest Season of My Life Became the Work I Was Meant to Do
A deeply human reflection on how the darkest season of life became the work you were meant to do. This piece traces the journey from early honesty about mental health to losing Maddie, grieving forward, and building MentorWell with compassion and purpose. It offers grounded hope, gentle guidance, and one clear reminder: small steps and support matter more than perfection.
The Unspoken Crisis That’s Breaking Your Best People
A quiet crisis is unfolding in today’s workplaces: parents carrying the weight of a child’s mental health struggle. LifeLine Workshops give them clarity, language, and calm when they need it most. This isn’t about benefits—it’s about supporting parents so teams can stabilize, perform, and feel human again.
So Grief, Anger and Empathy Walk Into a Bar...
After losing his 14-year-old daughter Maddie, a father turned his grief into purpose. Through The Mentor Well, he helps teens and young adults find guidance, empathy, and strength before they reach a breaking point. This story reminds us that grief, anger, and empathy can build hope—and connection saves lives.
Be Kind Like Maddie for World Kindness Day
Maddie’s story reminds us that kindness can outlive loss. On World Kindness Day, The Mentor Well celebrates her legacy through mentorship—connecting caring adults with teens who need someone to listen, guide, and believe in them. Be kind like Maddie, and help kindness grow one conversation at a time.
The Lie We Tell Ourselves: “My Kid Would Tell Me if Something Was Wrong.”
Most parents believe their child would tell them if something was wrong. Chris Coulter shares a raw and honest reflection on losing his daughter Maddie and the lessons he wishes every parent understood. This powerful article challenges silence, denial, and fear—urging parents to listen with love, not assumptions.
1 in 4 Working Parents Is in Crisis. Think Your Business Feels It?
Nearly 1 in 4 working parents is struggling with a teen facing serious mental health challenges. Absenteeism is up 300% since the pandemic, but presenteeism is the hidden cost crippling organizations. Supporting families with proactive mental health resources through The MentorWell helps employees stay engaged, reduces benefit costs, and strengthens your workforce.
From Struggling Student to CEO: Why the Path Isn’t Always by Straight A’s
Grades matter—but they’re not the whole story. Emotional intelligence shapes the way teens navigate life, relationships, and leadership. At The MentorWell, we help students build EQ skills like self-awareness, conflict resolution, and resilience—the tools they’ll need far beyond the classroom.
This Question, Asked at the Right Time, Could Save a Life
Asking someone if they’re thinking of harming themselves won’t make things worse—it could save their life. In this emotional piece for Suicide Prevention Month, the founder of MentorWell shares the story of losing her daughter to suicide and offers guidance on how to ask the hardest question with compassion, courage, and care.