3 Warning Signs Your Teen Is Pulling Away (And What to Do)
Teens don’t always pull away loudly. Often, the warning signs are subtle, small shifts in behaviour, tone, and connection. Drawing from lived experience, this piece shares three early signs a teen may be disconnecting, along with gentle ways parents can respond before things escalate. It’s about noticing sooner, staying present, and trusting what you see.
I Missed the Signs and I Am Still Her Dad
A father reflects on missing the signs before losing his daughter and the guilt many parents carry. With compassion and honesty, this piece reframes hindsight into foresight, reminding parents that missing signs does not mean a lack of love. It offers a simple, human invitation: notice small shifts, name them gently, and stay present — without judgement or panic.
One Thing Parents Do That Shuts Kids Down Without Meaning To
Most parents jump into problem-solving because they care. But fixing too fast often shuts kids down instead of helping them feel heard. This piece gently explains why kids pull away, especially in adolescence, and how slowing down, naming feelings, and asking permission can rebuild trust. Connection grows through presence, not answers.
The Promise I Made After Losing Maddie, And Why I’m Keeping It on Substack
After losing my daughter Maddie, I made a promise no parent should walk this road alone. This post shares why I’ve chosen Substack—not for growth, but for reach, truth, and early support for families navigating teen mental health. MentorWell exists to turn hindsight into foresight, and this is where that promise continues.
Why December Breaks So Many Teens, And a Daily Ritual That Can Hold Them Together
December quietly overwhelms many teens: exams, disrupted routines, social pressure, grief, and family stress collide. When teens go quiet, they don’t need space; they need steadier presence. This piece explains why December hits so hard and offers one simple daily ritual, a predictable check-in, that can help teens feel anchored, supported, and less alone.
To the Parent Who Feels Like They’re Failing: You’re Not Alone
A heartfelt message for parents who feel like they’re failing as they navigate a teen’s emotional struggles. This piece reframes doubt into connection, reminding parents that presence—not perfection—is what matters. It offers foresight, hope, and community through the MentorWell Parent Circle for those feeling alone.
You’re Not a Bad Parent. You’re Just Doing It Alone
Parents aren’t failing, they’re isolated. The MentorWell Parent Circle offers a safe, international community where parents of teens can share stories, ask questions, and feel supported beyond workshops. A place to breathe, connect, and remember you don’t have to do this alone.
10 Things Teens Wish Their Parents Knew (But Rarely Say Out Loud)
Teens want emotional safety, calm presence, and connection more than advice or pressure. This article shares ten things teens often wish parents understood, plus the common parental habits that unintentionally create distance. With gentle foresight and practical support, families can slow down, listen fully, and rebuild connection.
5 Quiet Cries for Help I Missed, and What Every Parent Should Know
Teens rarely show obvious distress. Their early cries for help appear as small shifts—short answers, irritability, isolation, sleep changes, and losing interest in what they love. This article helps parents spot these signs sooner and respond with steady, hopeful presence. MentorWell offers support for teens who need a neutral, trusted adult.
The Darkest Season of My Life Became the Work I Was Meant to Do
A deeply human reflection on how the darkest season of life became the work you were meant to do. This piece traces the journey from early honesty about mental health to losing Maddie, grieving forward, and building MentorWell with compassion and purpose. It offers grounded hope, gentle guidance, and one clear reminder: small steps and support matter more than perfection.
You Do Not Need To Be Strong Every Day
Grief, stress, and emotional swings don’t mean you’re failing—they mean you’re human. This piece reminds parents and caregivers that honesty matters more than strength, and that teens learn emotional habits from us. MentorWell offers steady, calm support so teens can speak openly before things become heavy. A hopeful, practical reflection on presence over perfection.