Chris Coulter thought he knew his daughter better than anyone. A quiet four-hour drive home from Prince Edward Island proved him wrong in ways he wouldn't understand for years. This piece looks at confirmation bias in parenting, why "fine" isn't proof of anything, and the early warning signs of teen depression that get explained away. For parents who assume they'd know if something was wrong.

A parent reached out on a Sunday — desperate, she said. She had already decided what she wanted to hear before she dialled. When I didn't say it, the call ended. This episode is about the difference between reaching out for validation and being ready for clarity. They feel identical. They lead to very different places.